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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Fatwa # 17542 from United States Date: Wednesday, February 18th 2009


CategoryInviting to IslamTitleHi, I would like to know if it's haram to have a boyfriend?, and Can you please pray for my dad to get out of jail?


QuestionHi, I would like to know if it's haram to have a boyfriend?, and Can you please pray for my dad to get out of jail?


Answer


In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most MercifulAssalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi WabarakatuhAll praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


We acknowledge receipt of your enquiries and the response follows hereunder:


Fornication has become a common place occurrence within the Muslim Youth community, and the Muslim girls and boys have sadly fallen prey to the snares of Western society. In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship.Furthermore, if a girl or boy enters into a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship then he/she is entering into a pre-marital relationship which is Haraam.


We need to understand that that pre-marital relationship is like the extra-marital relationships, or what is commonly known as adultery or 'an affair'.Islam has taken a firm and decisive stance against Zina (fornication or adultery). Allah Ta’ala commands in explicit and unequivocal words:


[وَلاَ تَقْرَبُواْ الزِّنَى إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلاً]“And come not near unto adultery. Verily! It is an abomination and an evil way.” (Surah Al-Israa’: Ayat 32)


Thus, Islam not only prohibits Zina, but also closes all the avenues and means leading to it. This is achieved by prohibiting every step and means leading to stimulating desires, opening ways for illicit sexual relations between men and women, and promoting indecency and obscenity.At this stage you may assert that girlfriend-boyfriend relationships need not go as far as the sexual act; that they can control themselves and simply enjoy each others company. To counter this, you say that it is a fact when a girl and a boy are alone together, their sexual desires awaken and before they know it, they will be doing things that are not permissible between unmarried people. The reason for this is because Shaytaan will be the third person with them and he will whisper and tempt them with the forbidden.


In an authentic Hadith reported by Ahmad, it is narrated that the Prophet (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi Wassallam) said: “The eyes commit Zina, the hands commit Zina and feet commit Zina and the genitals commit Zina.” [Musnad Ahmad, Hadith no. 4258]In another Hadith, he (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi Wassallam) is reported to have said that “the genitals confirm or deny it.” (Indicating that starring at opposite sex in a lustful way has a spontaneous effect on the genitals and may induce person to commit Zina).Ibn Masoud (Radhiyallaahu ‘anhuma) related that Prophet Muhammad (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi Wassallam) said:-


«لَا يَحِلُّ دَمُ امْرِىءٍ مُسْلِمٍ يَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَأَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا رَسُولُ اللهِ، إِلَّا بِإِحْدَى ثَلَاثٍ: النَّفْسُ بِالنَّفْسِ، وَالزَّانِي الْمُحْصَنُ، وَالتَّارِكُ لِدِينِهِ الْمُفَارِقُ لِلْجَمَاعَة»


"The blood of a Muslim may not be legally spilt other than in one of three instances: the married person who commits adultery, a life for a life, and one who forsakes his religion and abandons the community." [Sahih Bukhari & Muslim].


As for the unmarried person who has sexual relationships, rest assured that this person will not go unpunished; he or she is to be caned or whipped one hundred times:الزَّانِيَةُ وَالزَّانِى فَاجْلِدُواْ كُلَّ وَاحِدٍ
مِّنْهُمَا مِاْئَةَ جَلْدَةٍ
The adulteress and adulterer, flog each of them with a hundred stripes.(Surah Nur; ayat 2)Even in the Hereafter, the punishment will be very severe as was attested by the Prophet (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi Wassallam) when he went in Mi’raj that the adulterers, men and women, were in a baking oven in Hellfire [Sahih Al-Bukhari].This is why Islam shuns all avenues leading to corruption of the mind, body and soul. May Allah protect us from this evil act and guard us against all ways that lead to it.“We pray hale and hearty that Allah Ta’ala liberates your father rapidly from the jail and keeps him with ‘aafiyah (grant him safety & wellbeing). Ameen”Do keep in touch. If you have any other question, don't hesitate to write to us.And Allah Ta'ala Knows BestWassalamu AlaykumMufti Ebrahim Desai (M1)Darul Iftaa, Madrassah In'aamiyyah

Sunday, October 18, 2009

tentang dia!

Hanya aku yg paling mengenal diriku..
Yakah? Entahla..Kadang-kadang, aku sendiri tidak mengenali siapa diri ini..sering kali aku hanyut dalam emosi sendiri tanpa memikirkan insan di sisi..insan yg slalu menemani diri ini...maafkan wahai insan! aku hanyalah hambaNya yang lemah..maafkan aku wahai diriku…aku mahu menjadi yang baik2 tetapi aku tetap menjadi diriku..Wahai insan-insan yang aku sayangi..maafkan aku, bantulah aku!

Ibu


Terima kasih atas segala…pengorbananmu tak mungkin terbalas olehku sepanjang hayat ini..kesabaranmu yang menggunung menambah sayu di hati ini..

Betapa besar jasanya
Betapa murni kasih sayangnya
Mendidik dan mengasuhku hingga aku dewasa
Segala kesusahan
Segala penderitaan
Kau hadapi dengan sabar
Tanpa putus asa, gelisah, kecewa

Ibuku tercinta
Segala baktimu kuterima
Hanya Tuhan dapat membalasnya
Syurga diakhirat sana
Wahai tuhan ku
Ampunkan dosa
Ibu Ayahku
Kasihanilah mereka
Seperti kau mengasihiku
Wahai Tuhanku
Redhakan Ibu dan Ayahku
Kasihanilah mereka
Selamatkan dari azab neraka

Saat aku tak mampu membantu, hanya doa yang kutitipkan buatmu supaya Dia terus-menerus memberi kekuatan kepadamu untuk menjalani hidup ini dengan caramu tersendiri..Moga kau sentiasa dilindungi oleh Yang Maha Esa di muka bumi ini..


Sahabat

Buat insan bergelar sahabat..Terima kasih kerana sentiasa berada di sisi..Melayani kerenah dan kelemahan diri dengan penuh kesabaran…Aku bukan insan yang sempurna yang mampu mengawal kehendak diri.Aku lemah bahkan aku amat-amat lemah! Maafkan aku...Aku pasti hatimu selalu tercalar akibat sikap dinginku..Itu aku....hanya kau yang mengenali aku sebegitu rupa..
Di mata insan lain, aku seorang ceria..aku peramah..tp aku juga pemarah! Marah dengan emosi sendiri..marah dengan kehendak diri..
Untuk semua itu, aku mohon maaf. Aku mohon maaf. Aku mohon maaf dengan sangat…
Gelak tawaku, senda gurauku..kadang-kadang tanpa sedar telah menghiris hati-hati kalian…jangan sangka aku begini dan begitu…kerana aku memang begini..usah segan menegurku. kerna kalian adalah cerminan diriku!

Sahabat,
Jgn pernah lelah berada disisiku..
Sahabat,
Aku bukanlah insan yg sempurna tuk bersamamu..
Telah kukatakan padamu, Kau tidak akan menyukai bila kau mengenaliku..
Maafkan aku kerna tak mampu menjadi orang yang kau senangi..
Sahabat,
Apa yang kau lihat, itulah diriku..
Aku banyak berkata-kata.. Dalam kata-kata itu, telah ramai yang terluka..
Aku banyak ketawa.. Dalam gelak tawa itu, hatiku selalu derita..
Sahabat,
Ku mohon, kau sentiasa maafkan..
Tingkahku yang tak kau senangi..
Tuturku yang menyakiti..
Aku sedang merubah diri..
Satu yang perlu kau tahu..
Aku sentiasa menyayangimu..
Sahabat,
Saat nanti…
Bila kita tak jumpa lagi..
Aku janji pada diriku..
Bayangmu sentiasa disisi..
Kerna aku pasti…
Apa yang ada dalam dirimu..
Lebih jelas kiranya engkau tidak disini..
Sahabat,
Kiranya tiba hatimu kembali sepi…
Serulah kenangan yang kita ciptakan..
Saat indah suka duka..
Kita sentiasa bersama..
Sahabat,
Selagi bintang berkedip,
Selagi mentari bersinar,
Selagi berombak lautan,
Selagi ada kicauan burung,
Selagi kita masih bernyawa,
Kau tetap akan ku ingati..


Terima kasih sahabat!